I don't expect this to come up much, since I'm only approving account creation by people I know. But, since we should have a Code of Conduct, here goes:
Zero tolerance policy for racism/sexism/homophobia/transphobia and other associated forms of bigotry.
Also zero tolerance policy for: death threats, doxxing, harassment, commercial spam, spreading COVID hoaxes/conspiracy theories or other medical misinformation as fact.
Servers that allow/promote such behavior will be blocked/de-federated.
Behavior that's more of a "yellow flag", earning you a warning, and ban if warnings are repeatedly ignored: excessive product promotion, piling-on, screenshot dunking, persistently contacting someone who wants to end the conversation, arguing in bad faith, arguing based on uncharitable reading/strawmanning
Just be nice, and we won't have a problem!
I operate this server as a hobby, not a job, and having an account here is a privilege, not a right.
This is version 1 of the code of conduct, subject to change.